Capture the HEART 5304

The head won't go where the heart hasn't been.....

After viewing this weeks videos I have come to realize that in order to captures one attention in trying to get them to change is not feeding them information because half the time people already know that part because others have already talked with them on the issue at hand. Hell they are tired of you going on and on about what they need to do and HOW you think they should go about doing it. This crap is not working and in order to change or make changes you have to captures ones heart.

Starting with WHY... majority of the time people already have a feeling they need to change or make changes but don't really know how to change and will most likely need a push of motivation to get them started. Then you have others who just wake up and say today I'm gonna change and just do it.

Growing up I've always been told to think with my brain (mind) not my heart because your heart can lead you down some tough roads (traditional way). In all honesty the heart can to but with the heart its different the heart feels pain, emotions, and other heartfelt things that tugs at that organ and once something tugs people at the heart they crave change. They will go above and beyond for that change crazy how something so dramatic has to happen for change to happen.

In the video How to Change People Who Don't Want to Change by The Behavioral Science Guys stuck out to me the most. Now everyday we see adults smoking they already know smoking tobacco is indeed bad for them but they don't care because them smoking does not affect others. But then when these same adults see children under 12 doing it now its bad and something they shouldn't be doing weird right I thought so to. Seeing those kids smoking tugged at those adult smokers hearts (emotional) and now they became the informational givers and right there the roles where switched.

Lesson Learned: Tug at the heart and expect change

References

www.youtube.com. (n.d.). How to Change People Who Don’t Want to Change | The Behavioral Science Guys. [online] Available at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ACi-D5DI6A [Accessed 19 Jan. 2022].

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